So I didn't know what to put in this blog, but after thinking and talking to my grandmother, I came up with a thought topic. I have been told that DB could be facing up to 15 years prison time. And my mother HATES him. He didn't do anything for the house hold, he treated the people who cared about him with disrespect, and as much as I would like the imaginary version I have of him to be real and in Avery's life, I cannot have it; Imaginary isn't real, plus, I want her to grow up with a proper gentleman as a role model.
But as we were discussing this with the three generations, Grandmother, Mother, and Myself; my mom decided to let me know that she felt strongly that we shouldn't tell Avery where her dad is and should tell her that he is dead... Now while I don't want him in her life, equally, I don't want my relationship with her built on that lie. So when she Google's his name one day and finds out that he is just in jail? I suddenly become a liar about EVERYTHING. That is just how it goes with teenagers. Even if you are doing something because you know it would be better in the long run? A teenager isn't going to see that, So what I wanted to do and my grandma agreed, is to tell her the truth.
But after talking to my father. Wise man that he can be told me that in 15 years, I won't necessarily have tabs on him. SO I just tell her that I don't know where he is. He could be sent to any county. And its going to get to tedious to keep up with it so it would make sense to just say I don't know.
Now here is your opportunity. What do you think I should do? I see there is minimal traffic to my site, and if you feel like letting me know that you exist, feel free to comment.
Until next time.
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